15 Reasons Chris makes me smile...

1.  The other day I was telling Chris about a de-cluttering method I once heard of.  You turn all of the hangers backwards in your closet and once you've worn something you turn the hanger around.  After 6 months if the hanger is still backwards you should get rid of the piece of clothing on it, because, if you haven't needed it in 6 months you probably won't again.  Sometimes when I tell Chris about such cleaning/householdy things, I wonder if I am just boring him.  I wondered that as I was telling him about this trick.  Then later that night I opened the closet and smiled so big.  Chris had turned all of his hangers around backwards.

2.  Chris bought me these cheery flowers after I had had a bad day.  He said he chose those ones specifically because they had the most blue in them.  (I am slightly obsessed with the color blue.)

3.  The other week in Kansas Chris decided to take a break from cleaning out our apartment and make use of the phone book we had just been delivered.

He was like a little boy, running around, tearing and throwing all of those pages.

I turned human shredder on my pages.  It was surprisingly entertaining. 

4.  Chris sings lullaby's to me at night sometimes to help me get to sleep.  My favorite is when he sings "How Much Is That Dog In The Window?" and makes me do all of the barking sound effects.  He has started to sing lullaby's to Jack now too.  And he always tells him how much he loves him.

5.  Lately it is hard for me to get to sleep at night.  I dread laying in bed for hours.  Usually this is when my mind won't stop going, and I think up the most horrible things that could happen and then worry about them nonstop.  Because of this, I avoid going to bed unless I am very tired.  Chris who gets up at 5 am for work falls asleep right away, leaving me feeling more lonely.  Now even though I know he is so tired, he lays down on the couch with me every night, while I watch a TV show til I get tired enough to fall asleep.  I know he's not very comfortable but he doesn't want to leave me alone.

6.  Some nights are especially bad for me.  I am worrying like crazy.  I have weird pains going on in my body I can't explain.  I feel like my pregnant belly is going to explode.  I have heartburn which prevents me from laying down and I'm not very good at doing the whole sitting up and sleeping thing.  My pregnancy emotions are taking me for a roller coaster ride from hell.  And at this point I usually just start crying uncontrollably.  Chris always stays up with me, cuddles me, reassures me and scratches my back.  He tries so hard to stay awake until I fall asleep.  He scratches my back, falls asleep, wakes up, apologizes and continues to scratch my back.  It's so cute and always makes me feel better.

7.  Chris gets so excited about all of the tiny baby clothes for Jack.  He set up this circle of clothes.  They are organized by size.  We both love the fuzzy things with feet on them.  I think his favorite is the tiny army fuzzy pjs.  I like the stripey, fuzzy, blue and grey thing with little ears on the hood.

8.  Chris sings to himself  a lot.  It's usually really loud and boisterous.  He's been into Phantom of the Opera lately.  My favorite are his shower concertos.

9.  Sometimes I will ask Chris a question and he will get very distracted.  I think he's ignoring me or forgot to answer.  Then I realize he is googleing the answer and that is why he sounded distracted.

10.  Sometimes Chris will grab my favorite stuffed hippo and dive bomb me with him, complete with sound affects.

11.  This picture of Chris with this stuffed bear I placed on his lap while he was playing a very serious X box game, makes me smile.  

13.  I love how excited he gets when he zaps a bug with his bug zapper and it makes a really loud "POP".

14. His alarm plays the song by Bruno Mars, "When I See Your Face".  And if I wake up when his alarm goes off he sings the song to me.

 15.  Mostly Chris makes me smile because I never feel lonely when I am with him.  We laugh together all the time.  I can tell him anything.  He is always trying to make me happy and we are just the best of friends. 

Summer 2012

Blaik and Mandi

 Mandi and I at lunch.  We are beauties.  We both have uncannily large nostrils in these pictures. 

 Blaik and I being flowers at the Kansas City Farmers Market.

 Look how cute Blairence is!

 Me and one of my favorite little guys. 

 This is one of my favorite Chris faces.  He looks like a little grumpy puppy.  He pulls this beauty out when I am particularly sad.  It always makes me smile.  

 A rode Chris and I spotted on the rode from Kansas to Utah.  In honor of our little Jack on the way.

 

 These are pictures of the fort Chris and his cousin Dallan masterminded.  They spent most of their time on the family vacation to the cabin working on this. It was nigh unto impossible to get a good picture because the trees were in the way.  But it is a traditional Kiribati (the island where Chris served his mission) house.  It's called a poo-poo or ki-kah or something.

 I spent most of my time at the cabin working on these beauties for my cousin in law.  They are little wooden gnomes from Gnomeo and Juliet.

And this last ditty is for Mandi.  I drew her life during church.  My best work :)

Cruise Photodump

Here are some random photos from 2nd Honeymoon...The Mexican Cruise.

 This pic was taken in the ships mini hospital.  I accidentally took a chunk of my skin off shaving (nasty I know).  I conjured up this temporary band-aid...paper towel and hair tie.  I was afraid the hair tie would cut off the circulation to my foot and lead to amputation, so we went to see about band-aids.  After finding out they were 3 dollars, we decided possible amputation was fine.  

 This is me sexy golfing on the ship.

 

 And Chris doing likewise.

 

  This is us trying out the panoramic setting on our camera. 

Some dear soul who saw us struggling with our camera (she didn't know we were paroramoring it) offered to take this pic.

Me holding these nasty lizard things that were forced on me by some random Mexican.  He then informed us we owed him 5 dollar for this pleasure.  Notice I named the little guys.  

In Cabo San Lucas on one of the "glass bottom boats".  Anyone who's been to Cabo and on one of those boats will know why the quotes are present.  Let's just say they should have called them, thick opaque, tiny bit of plastic, bottomed boat. 

There we are on the beach.  You can see a glass bottomed boat in the background as well as another Carnival ship...The Splendor.  Who's passengers were apparently later robbed at gun point. 

Captain Chris.  Don't you love the Mr. Alberts shirt? I have a Mrs. Alberts shirt that we wore for our reception...Thank you Mandi!

I'm being a sassy billionaire heiress with my little doggy in a bag.

When we would come home in the evening our towels would be folded into cute little animals.  And...cute surprise...Chris's baby hippo was always placed interacting with the towel animal.  Oh it was my idea to bring Hippo...every 2nd Honeymoon needs a baby hippo.  It's very romantic.  Here he is with Sir Ape.

And here with Kermit the Frog.

So there is a little glance into 2nd Honeymoon.

The Best Day Of My Life.

For Second Honeymoon Chris and I went to Mexico.  While in Mexico the most magical thing happened...all my dreams came true.  

I guess I should have begun by explaining that while on 2nd Honeymoon, Chris and I had a lot of time to chat.  One day I told Chris that it was one of my dearest wishes to hold a baby lion or tiger.  Chris patted me on the head and said, "That's nice." ...Or something like that.

Anyway, the VERY NEXT day it happened.  I saw these booths with baby lion photos on them, but they were closed.  I said aloud, "I wonder if there are real lions in there...nah, probably not."  Then on the way to one of our Cabo adventures, we passed the same booth.  And this time it was open.  And there to my immense pleasure, nay, my glee, no, my joy beyond all reasoning, was a baby lion.  We decided that if I still wanted to hold it after para-sailing, I would.  You bet your oldest child I still wanted too.  And then, for only 20 dollars I held that baby lion.  It was a miracle.  An early birthday and Christmas present combined.  Chris didn't even hesitate he paid the twenty smackaroo's like that.

 There we are, holding the cute little guy. 

 This picture portrays our feeling for the baby lion.  Chris is looking at the camera politely and I am enamored by the cutest thing I'd ever laid my eyes on.

 The star of the day. Notice how he is sucking on Chris's finger.  He did this most of the time.  He thought Chris's finger was his bottle or something.  Adorable!

PS I realize this "baby" lion is a little big.  I think it was about time for these peeps to switch out this lion with another more baby-ier lion.  But I loved him anyway.  

PSS Usually I go by the mantra, that all dogs are boys, and all cats are girls.  But when it comes to wild and adorable cats...they are also ALWAYS boys.  Even Nala.

PSSS Here is a pic of me with my new shorter hair.  Some people have commented that's its not as short as they thought it would be...but for me, it is plenty short.  Oh and don't mind the frizzies...they are the bane of my existence.

Valentinians Tag

I had a grand Valentines Day.  Me and the hubs ate at this little place...

It was so good! Best pulled pork and rolls I've ever tasted.  I also spotted the atrocity that is in every Texas Road House.  This evil guy.

(I made this pic small to spare you from his ugliness)

I want to punch him in the beezer, except I'm afraid I'll get leprosy.  Apparently armadillos are the only animals that can pass leprosy.  Through their paws.  Yuck!

Earlier that day Chris told me that for our surprise fun-tivity we going to go bowling.  To which I replied, "Oh no.  I hate bowling."  I hate bowling so much I couldn't even pretend to like it.  So after we ate Chris told me that no, we weren't going bowling and he already knew I hated it.  Next thing I know we are pulled up to Walmart and Chris informed me we were actually going to play the Walmart game...

...

Really? I mean really? (said like Seth Meyers from SNL).  The Walmart game is where two teams pick up 10 random objects each.  And then the objects are switched and the team who replaces the objects faster wins.  I love this game, I really do.  But there is just something wrong about Valentines Night taking place in a Walmart.  You feel me?

Chris then told me that he was kidding.  Again.  I told him he needed to stop lying to me because all of these supposed activities were making me skittish.  What would we really end up doing?!

Finally we pulled up to one of my favorite places in the world...a movie theater.  There we found this gem of a photo booth and took these:

I love them!  Then we went and watched Star Wars: The Phantom Menace 3D.  It was exactly what I wanted to do and Chris had remembered from when I mentioned this over a week ago.  He's so cute and really doesn't like movies.  That made the sacrifice even cuter.  

The Movie was longer than I remember but just as amazing.  There were a couple added parts I'd never seen. In one Jar Jar Binks calls Queen Amidalla "hot". I think I would have remembered that.  

Chris pulled a Justin Bieber on me and rented out the whole theater.  Actually we were just the only ones who happened to be seeing the movie, but I still felt cool that we had the whole thing to ourselves.  

Oh and Chris also went to Payless and got me these beauts.  They are blue and I love them.

It twas a great evening and I can't wait til next year!

I have the attention span of an 8 year boy with ADHD...

When I was little I remember sitting on the family room floor for hours listening to all the grow-ups talk about spiritual things.  If I made a peep I was banished to the basement.  I would just sit there and trace the pattern in my grandma's carpet...over and over and over again.  In church I could entertain myself with just my moms ring or the hymn book.

I'm afraid the good ol' days are gone.  Ever since I came to college I have a problem paying attention during spiritual discussions.  This was especially noticeable at ward prayer in the singles ward...or FHE.  I'll show you what I mean. 

 Yes...my idea of a spiritual thought is read a verse or quote (never both) and give a 10 second testimony.  But I found myself sitting through a full on talk instead.

And now I have issues with Sacrament Meeting.  More now that I have a big brawny shoulder to lean against. 

 

Almost every week I take a snoozer.  The only way I can stay awake and pay attention is if I have my little book to draw in.  I told you I was 8 years old.

On a more serious note...most of the time I get uncomfortable during spiritual situations.  And it's not because I don't have a testimony.  It's taken me a while to figure this out...I think it's because I get uncomfortable sharing something that means so much to me.  It feels very personal.  So when other people unveil their souls about such things I just get squirmy.  Don't get me wrong I could listen to people talk about world peace, their emotional issues and other deep things, for hours.  Just gospel related things make me a little on edge.

Sometimes I wonder if people act the way they do for show.  I noticed in my singles ward that return sister missionaries squint their eyes when they talk about spiritual things and get on this particularly holy voice.  Not all, just some.  And it made my gag reflex act up a little.  This all sounds horrible and I can't believe I'm admitting it.  I know I'm wicked.

My solution in these times of wondering if people are fake and feeling uncomfortable in a large group of devout saints?  I always have to remind myself it doesn't matter, the gospel is for me.  I need to focus on me and my simple testimony (simple not small).  Don't worry about the congregations just whats between Heavenly Father and my heart.  

PS I apologize for sounding judgy.  Honestly I wish I could be more like the people who make me fidgety...I just can't.  Not right now anyway.  I'm too worried about getting myself to stay awake through sacrament meeting. 

I got the chop...

Well actually my hair got the chop.  Let me start out by saying, all growing up I got called the short haired twin.  People would say this and all I would hear is..."You are the twin that looks like a boy. You ugly munchkin you."  Because of this I have worked very hard to keep my hair long and just the other day I though, "Well, Melani you're hair is looking pretty good.  Good thing you are such a sexy long haired fiend."  All of that changed my friends.

The other day Chris and I decided to take advantage of my mother's clippers and cut Chris' hair.  So a cutting I went.  Chris's (or is it Chris'...I never know) hair turned out pretty good.  So I thought, "I cut Chris's (I'm just going to do it this way, deal with it you grammar Nazis) hair, I'll have him cut my hair."

Now just to preface this, Chris has trimmed my hair before...in the shower...with the cooking shears (Sounds like the game of Clue).  We're pretty fancy.  And it turned out pretty good. So I thought no big deal.  Well after a little while of cutting I heard Chis say, "This might be a little short."  I'm thinking, "Oh he cut off two inches instead of one."  "Its fine Chris just keep going," I say.  Obviously I'm not that picky, see a fore mentioned shower incident.  

Well I look down and there on the floor are some very lengthy bits of my wet hair.  At this point I started to freak out.  "Wow that is short!"  I felt for my hair.  Usually I can reach my arm around my back and grab some...but I couldn't reach my hand up far enough to get any.  "Its really short!"  "I know, that's what I told you", Chris reminded me.

Well about an hour later and a few more shocked exclamations the deed was done.  I was pretty much over it.  I said to Chris, "Well I didn't freak out that bad. You are very lucky."  To which he replied, "Ya, you only showed everyone in the house and measured how much I cut off with a ruler." I did do that thing.

Guess what the ruler told me...6 and a half inches...that's how much of me I lost that day.  But I'm glad it was Chris and not some one else.  He's cute enough that I wasn't too upset. 

Look how pretty.  Look how nice. It was beautiful (tears).

I was going to show you a delightful picture of what my hair looks like now...but my camera has turned rouge on me and will not obey my commands. I will post one later.